Can you see bed bugs

What would you do in this situation involving a new relationship (two weeks tomorrow)?

The man I’m talking to is kind, caring and very attentive. I am not feeling well at all. He wants me to stay at his house tonight so he can take care of me…pamper me. We have not been intimate yet….only kissing, holding hands, hugs and holding each other as we nap. I’ve seen his bed and it’s really bug and looks comfy so feeling as badly as I do, I know I would end up there. He said we would just sleep and cuddle….I know better and i don’t trust him or myself. the temptation to make love would be too great and IMO its just too soon. I don’t want to “hit it and quit it” with him. I told him I would come over tomorrow after I leave urgent care if i feel better. He is alone this weekend and so am I because we have our children two weeks per month on the same weeks so next weekend, the kids will be with us. So we won’t see each other for two more weeks when they leave again. I know I am in need of affection but I think I should wait.